Men that have caught their women cheating shares their story and tells us how the women reacted.
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She had more pictures of another man than her bf’s
Well, this is about my ex. That fateful day, she came to my house to visit. I work from home so I’m home most times. She came during the day and we were talking and laughing until she showed me a picture on her phone about her work and I was looking for more of the same picture, I harmlessly started scrolling through. I saw one face repeat itself a few times and quickly returned the phone. I couldn’t stop thinking about it so I asked for the phone again so I could see the ‘work’ picture again.
I then compared the number of pictures of me she had on her phone to the number of pictures of this guy she had. Her excuse for not having much of my pictures had always been that I don’t snap plenty pictures, ok. I then asked who he was, she waved it off as he was married.
I wasn’t convinced and pressed on, she said he was a former classmate and a harmless friend. I stopped asking questions because I didn’t want to seem jealous. She noticed my mood had soured and kept quiet. She’s the kind of person that prefers to avoid issues, wishing they just go away on their own instead of working on them.
After lots of thoughts, I asked for their chats because I figured she either saved them off his social media page or he sent them to her on WhatsApp. That made me wonder what kind of conversation they’d be having for him to be sending so many of his pictures to her. She refused vehemently and my curiosity peaked even higher. She was adamant until I decided to chase her out of the house. She then buckled and showed me the chats. If you didn’t know we were dating, after reading those chats, you would think he was her boyfriend. She was telling him things about herself that I didn’t even know. Things that make her cry. Things about our relationship sef. While I was reading very quietly, my hands began shaking (it does that when I’m very angry – my whole body starts visibly shaking) and she began begging. She fell on her knees begging that nothing was going on between them at least not on her end.
Well, I didn’t end the relationship then, but when I eventually did, it was up there as one of the reasons. I couldn’t handle the disrespect.
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DNA test revealed she cheated.
So my ex told me she was pregnant. I remember the last time we had sex, the date and place exactly because that was the last time we had sex before she left my city back to school.
She informed me 2 months later that she was pregnant. I doubted the pregnancy because it wasn’t adding up but didn’t deny it until I had evidence. I made sure I was responsible all through. She became a different person from the time of pregnancy till the time I was able to do a DNA test which was 2 years later. She lied about everything, cost of hospital bills, monthly expenses.
In order to cover her tracks of cheating, she even had to tell the doctor to do induction to bring the child out earlier than expected (her father told me about the induction). She wanted to ruin all my finances. Someone that I thought was a good girl suddenly became dangerous after the pregnancy. It was after the DNA test that I found out the kid was not mine and everything clicked
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10 years of marriage with kids. His wife and her married boss relocated to the UK.
Relocated to the UK from Nigeria last year with my wife and kids. While in Nigeria where I was doing pretty well and catered for all her needs, I had no reason to suspect cheating from my wife in the over 10years of marriage.
Fast forward, one year into her medical professional work which is permanent and better paid than my temporary contract professional work, I started to notice changes in her behavior at home, not letting me touch her as often and her not coming to me at all for sex, her not sucking my dick as before, disconnect with my family members, insisting strongly that her phone remains locked etc. I saw the signs to be of a cheating partner, so I had to confront her with her boss that was my no.1 suspect and threatened her 3 times that I will expose her to the world if she doesn’t tell the truth of their affairs. As God could have it, she finally confessed everything. That they have been going to a hotel away from town to have sex a couple of times (8 times or so) without protection. She kept begging with remorse and constant cries for forgiveness everyday for over 3 weeks now. She said a number of things from being sad in our marriage to the disconnect between us and pressure from the boss to be the cause. I told her several times that I forgive her but I keep harassing her with the same deed from time to time because the pain and betrayal is so unbearable.
