Interesting
I knew she was cheating and I didn’t react over months. She came around one day and she was trying to start a drama on suspecting me of cheating. Person wey dey cheat dey suspect, I didn’t do anything. All I did was send her the guy’s number. She was calm and started the fake crying. Trying to defend it, she said it was just once they did it. Before I know, she said 4 times, again she said just 6 times. Omo! I just off. I asked her what led to that. She said the guy was just teasing that he would come over and he came and before she knew they were doing it.
What pained me is that the guy no get level at all. Like no level at all. The guy works under her. You said women are loyal to their damn feelings.
Wow wow wow
Dated my ex before I traveled out, after 6 months she came to meet me and we started living as couples, we both had a son.
Unfortunately, I had to leave the country to look for better opportunities else. I took my son who was just a year plus with me back home with the plans that she would join us later. As soon as I got to Nigeria, we started having issues. The first sign I saw was that she changed her Facebook password, I was the one who opened the Facebook account for her. When I queried her she was defensive and I let it slide. After a while she told me she made a mistake, she visited her course mate and one thing led to the other they had something. Honestly, I cried that day. I cried because I knew there was no coming back from that. I thought about my son, I thought about both families because we already had a great family relationship. I told her I forgive her and still want the relationship to work, she promised to be a good girl.
However, I was out of the relationship from that moment and I just had to play along so that I can focus on myself. I hinted my mum that I was going to break up with her, she was not having it and she even tried to blackmail me emotionally. Although I didn’t tell anyone the reason for the break up but I stood my ground.
Finally, she called me one day that she just want to tell me to move on, that she had moved on with her life. She said she is telling me this because my mum keeps calling her and she is disturbing her. I just smiled, called her name in full and I said thank you and God bless you.
Why I made that statement was because I was already involved with another lady and the first green light from her is that she is family oriented (though raised by a single mother caused by the death of their father). I still wish I met her father, everyone talks so highly of him.
I did series of test for her trying to see how my son will survive under her, but God really favored me, she is a good mother. So when my ex told me she had moved on and she wants me to move on too, I just smiled because I had moved on a long time ago. Sope o ti lo.
He saw a torn and used condom in her vagina during knacking
I had this girl I loved so much with all my heart. I did everything possible to prove my love for her in various ways. My friends use to tell me to watch her closely but I see it as them being envious. Mumu me, seems I couldn’t see clearly, maybe I was blinded by love. Never again sha. One day, she told me she wanted to visit her aunt and I even gave her transport fare and she left. When she came back about 5days later, of course I miss her so we had sex. In the process of having sex I noticed something in her. So when I pulled out to check, I saw a torn condom in her. I was shocked and the urge died immediately. She saw it and said It came from our previous sex. I reminded her we don’t use protection because I really trusted her with my heart and thought I found my life partner. She started crying that she don’t know how it came about. I forgave her but still decided to go through her phone later. This babe went to knack and it was in the same city but she said she was going to see her aunt in another state. I left the relationship even though she still pleads. I never cheated on her but this have affected my relationship with other ladies after it. I don’t put all my 100 percent trust again. I give it 50-50 so I don’t regret.
