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This one did investigation to catch the man as he was hiding his marital status from her.
Once had an encounter with one. He met me at a tech shop where I was working only on Fridays and Saturdays.
He came to the shop to buy something for his phone. After he came that day he started coming frequently and honestly he was coming just to see me, nothing else. We started talking and I began to enjoy his company. One day he came around, I asked him if he was married and he said no. I believed because I didn’t know him from anywhere, but he had a friend who owned a store opposite to the store where I was working. He then asked me out and we started dating, he asked me to keep it on a low-key and not tell anyone about it, not even his friends. Being a person who likes privacy, I was happy about that as well. We did more of chatting than calling and honestly, that was on me because I don’t like phone calls so I told him that I was fine with just chatting. Not like we didn’t speak on phone but it was seldom.
Some weeks later, he called me on phone and while we were talking I kept hearing the voice of a baby crying, asked him about it and he said he was watching a movie and a baby in the movie was crying and I said okay. It happened a second time and he gave the same movie excuse. The third time, he said his neighbor’s child was crying. It was suspicious cause he lived in a flat so I didn’t understand why the cry of his neighbor’s child will be very loud in his own apartment. One day we went out and I asked him when I would visit him, he said soon. I asked him on other occasions and he said same thing. It was at this point I knew something was fishy because I know that no boyfriend would refuse his girlfriend coming to see him.
Well, one day I was in his car and I decided to check his phone, I found no woman’s number on his contact list. It was very surprising, like no single woman’s number on his contact list. I asked him about it and he was like women complain a lot. He said if I had seen women’s number I would have suspected him, now that there’s no number I’m asking questions. While we were still discussing in the car, a woman called him and he picked the call so fast like he didn’t want me to see the name. Asked him who she was and he said it was his sister whose name was Cynthia. I became confused cause when I checked his contact list, no woman’s number was found, so how come a woman’s call entered and it seemed like her number was already saved on his phone. Anyways, I asked him again when I would come to his house and he said his sister is around that she hates guest and would fight me if I come around. I said okay.
About two weeks after that, we went out and we were talking, I asked him about his sister and he was like which sister? I said your sister Cynthia and he was like who is Cynthia? I became confused, I began to wonder how someone would forget his sister. So I reminded him of that day and he said “ooooohhhh Cynthia she’s fine”. He said he couldn’t remember it was her cause at home they called her by her native name, which is Ogechi.
He saw I wasn’t comfortable with the answer and he asked me what I will do if I ever found out that he’s married, I said I will leave him cause it’s adultery on his part and I don’t want to be a party to that. He went on to explain that it’s a normal thing and if at all that happens it shouldn’t cause our breakup, he even said that I am the most important person in his life, that he loves me first before he loves God and his parents.
After his love confession, he asked me who was the most important in my life and I said my mom. He got furious ooh, that why would I love my mom more than I love him and I was just looking at him in surprise.
My instincts just kept telling me that this man was married and I know that my instincts never lie. I called his friend who owned the store opposite us on phone that night, I asked him about this man. I fabricated a story cause I didn’t want to give him any clue. He then told me that this my boyfriend was married with three children. I was shocked, although I expected that news but I was still shocked.
I sent him a text insulting him cause I no get chills for body if I dey vex. I felt bad though but honestly I had to call it off. He called to beg but I couldn’t continue, I enjoyed the relationship for the few months it lasted.
I don’t think the wife ever knew about us but that’s their problem. I don’t regret the relationship, he was nice and caring. I only don’t like the fact that he was married and he lied about that.
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She had encounter with two married men & one gave her the best knacks she has ever had. Wife found out.
So, I always had this personal policy not to have anything to do with married men because I’m a very jealous and selfish person who can’t imagine sharing my man. But I started service and had this friend who used to joke about having some of those older men in our department who would sponsor our enjoyment and it sort of got into my head. The normal me that will shy away from such advances started going along with it. Ended up with 2 from the department (different times) and they both knew about it (the first one had a hint). I’ll focus more on the 2nd one because we did build an actual friendship apart from the shenanigans.
So apparently, I was the first person outside his marriage and I kind of had to do some convincing before he and I could get intimate. He was a hard nut to crack but that’s what made me want him more. So, it went on for a while and used to take me along when he was traveling for work or other purposes. In all that, he was concerned about my wellbeing and what I wanted to do with my life and we used to talk a lot. He even started giving me marriage tips.
So mid last year, he called me at work that his wife had seen our texts and we’d have to call it off (and oh did I mention he had been trying to call it off but I kept trying harder, sometimes he’d fold, other times he wouldn’t). So we cut ties and I get worried for him but I think everything eventually became cool.
Apart from the sexual satisfaction I got from him that no one had given me before, he had a great personality and I was subconsciously comparing any suitors to him. I finally got a bf few months ago and I never mentioned this man to him, but once again, I subconsciously compared him to this man. I had decided to stay off married men completely after my encounter with this man.
We started communicating again and he admitted that the few times we’d been together in his office, it’s been difficult for him trying to hold back from getting intimate with me. I mentioned that this new guy I got is a good guy and I wouldn’t want to hurt him so I’d hold back. We kept talking about it and this man is my weakness, so I eventually gave in. Now we don’t keep messages but we still talk about anything and everything. He even brought it to my realization that since he stepped back into the picture, I become angry over petty issues with my bf and it might be true.
