A common conception of a confident person is one who is successful, sociable, and determined. Logically, confidence has become increasingly more attractive over the years, largely due to the anticipated success that is a result of an individual with high self-confidence.
This 8 tips will help you become confident.
Everyone is human
Remember that the people you think are ‘cool’ are actually no different from you. Everyone has their own problems, insecurities, and doubts. Stop thinking they’re better than you.
Give yourself credit.
Stop being so hard on yourself. Remember all the good things you have done. Remember how far you’ve come. You’re doing great, just remind yourself of it more often.
Put yourself in uncomfortable situations.
This is the best way to overcome shyness. Join a club, go to events and put yourself out there. These uncomfortable situations will soon become comfortable, and then you will become a confident person.
Get in shape and dress well.
The easiest way to become confident is to look good. If you don’t like your appearance you will shy away in social settings. If you like your appearance you will be proud and confident in public settings.
Allow yourself to make mistakes.
As cheesy as it sounds, ‘Rome was not built in a day’. You’re allowed to make mistakes. This is how we learn and grow as humans.
Less planning, more action.
Too much planning can lead to overthinking and anxiety. Take action instead! Also, the more times you do something, the more confident you will get.
Believe in yourself.
Even if you don’t believe in yourself, you can trick your brain into believing.
Before bed every night say “I am a confident person” 10 times. It will be programmed into your subconscious and trick you into becoming confident!
Take risks.
I know it’s scary, but you need to take risks. If your dream looks too risky and scary – break it down into smaller parts. Then it won’t be as intimidating to pursue.
