She only ended her relationship with the married man in April 2022. Or has it?
I meet my my uncle’s colleague back then when I was around 19 years, he liked me but didn’t know how to talk to me cause I was always frowning my face but then he wasn’t married.
Fast-forward to when I was 25, I just ended a relationship of 5years and was alone and very much single. So one faithful day, in the morning I got a call from my uncle’s friend and I was so surprised that it was him (now married with kids). To cut the long story short, we started dating and I was beginning to have feelings and he was also talking about marrying me as his second wife, I didn’t say no cause I didn’t want to have any relationship again aside him.
He treated me so special, sends me money, got me a new phone, buys me cloth, we even meet at luxury hotels in Lagos, travelled to Ghana with him, visited his work place. I enjoyed that time cause I will just take my bath, eat, watch tv, sleep, and so much more. I was feeling like a big girl then because I didn’t have all this experience with my ex of 5years.
I started dating my sugar-daddy since 2019 till early 2022 cause his wife found out. She didn’t cause any issue but she was just angry that of all people he could use to shame her it is now me, so that scattered plans. And also, few months to when we started dating, I was wanting more from him but he couldn’t offer me and he once said to me that I should find something doing with my time rather sitting somewhere and expecting him to be talking to me all the time. It pained me then and it made me change my mind about him and thought I should just move on with my life. I have lavished all the money I saved up because I wasn’t expecting it to end like this. We stopped dating last April but before then he had relocated his family abroad.
He wants us back, just for us to see anytime he is in Lagos because he usually spends two weeks at work and two weeks break in UK with his family. But I now have a serious relationship to get married next year. I can’t mess that up for anything.
The married man’s wife she dated later turned out to be her boss in the office even her M.Sc. lecturer. She invited her one day to her home for lecture and she declined to go.
I was in my final year, had financial challenges and went home to work, get some money, deferred my admission for a year before going back to school.
That was the period I met this man. When we started talking, he was impressed and asked if I was a student. I answered and told him my challenges. I guess because of my story, he held back and didn’t want me to see him as taking advantage of me. So, he didn’t out rightly ask me for a relationship. Instead, he promised to support me, which he did. Funded my project and all other financial obligations.
After my schooling, when I was about going for NYSC, he invited me and asked me for sex. He first gave me a long talk, guilt tripping me. I couldn’t say no. We had sex twice and whenever he asked me again, I turned him down, that I couldn’t do it anymore. Years later when I started working, met a woman I later learnt is his wife, who became my senior colleague. Years later, the same woman became my lecturer who thought me in my M.Sc. she even became fond of me.
Once, she scheduled a class in her house, I deliberately missed the class because I didn’t want to see him . I hated that I had to sleep with him. I regret that situationship because I paid for my naivety, not knowing everything he did was a Greek gift. That was my first and last.
