PART 4: Single men that have dated or are dating married women shares their story

8. He knacked her back to back for two years before she went to meet her husband in London.

Sometime in 2018 after my NYSC, I used to go to a bar for refreshment, so it was always my favorite bar.

One faithful evening, I was in that bar enjoying alone as usual and a lady came to meet me and said her boss is calling me which happens to be the daughter of the owner of the bar. She’s a Londoner which everyone in that area knows about so I was like why is she calling me, like what’s happening?. I went to meet her and she told me she really likes how I used to sit alone and take whatever I want to take. She admired me and asked for my number which I gave her. I knew where she was going to so I immediately hijacked the conversations from her and turned it around as if I was the one interested. That same night was a bliss and told me she really want us to be together. This particular lady is like 10 years older than me and she has 2 kids, I was single. The husband was not in Najia, so l used to go to her house to knack back to back

The first time we knack, she gave me 100 euros which was very huge then as a ajepako guy. She has done several things for me that I never expected. I enjoyed this lady for almost 2 years before she went back to London to meet her husband. I miss her.

9. She has done her introduction and is getting married this January. But she still wants to continue.

We met in 2020 via one of these online meet up apps. I can’t even say if she had already met the guy before me. However for me, it was lust at first sight.

This lady’s skin is so smooth and she always smells well. Smelling well is a massive turn on for me. I can sell my destiny for a lady that smells well. It’s a strictly knacking and no love type of relationship between the both of us. However last November, after intense knacking, she told me she did her introduction in September. I was shocked and a bit sad. I told her that this means the end for us, she said no. That she won’t delete my number, she wants to continue. That her guy doesn’t knack her like me. I don’t treat her like a gentlewoman in bed. I give her hot and rough strokes. She demands nothing from me, not even transport fare. She refused to delete my number and has refused to end things. I just can’t change my phone number because of my business clients. Her traditional wedding is this January. I may have to rent another house in order to run away from her. I’m going to miss her smooth skin, sweet smell “down there” and her whole body.

This temptation is too much but I intend to rent another house once she does traditional wedding even though she still wants me.

10. He met a married woman that was threatening his life.

I had an encounter with a married woman. Just on the early stage of getting to knowing each other, she came up with bunch of conditions;

1. I won’t keep a girlfriend until we celebrate our 2yrs anniversary.
2. No woman would visit me nor will I speak to a lady at the gym.

• All calls must be on video.

Also she threatened to bully me if I don’t comply to the aforementioned rules. One day, I decided to think about what will be in of me if I go into it. I later summoned the courage to resist her. Even when I told her I won’t have anything to do with her, she threatened to hang my throat on the street. When I saw how desperate she was, I gave her two conditions and one must be met before I can consider her. One was that “she must buy me a brand new car and secondly, she must buy me a house worth “80 million”. She could not meet my demands so I moved. She still didn’t give up. She went to the point of trying to frustrate me. She swore that no lady born of a woman would have me except I danced to her tune.

I’m 30 and feasting on a married woman isn’t something I want at my age. I have a lot of them on my neck but I won’t break my covenant. I’m already doing well for myself so I got nothing to worry about.

N/B: some of these women flocking around us are suffering from domestic violence and infidelity from their hubbies. They can’t cope again but now want to retaliate. Just a lesson for married men to learn from.