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He was knacking both mother and daughter.
On guys that dated married women, I am one of them. While I was in school (first degree), during one of those small breaks, I went home and every Saturday I play basketball at VGC. One woman was just seated there and watched us play. There’s a mini bar close to their basketball court, I went to get water there, she dropped her number with the waitress there to give it to me that I should call her.
Fast forward, she said her husband is in the States, her daughter schooled in Abuja and she’s usually alone at home. We started dating and she would even take me to events where I would see other young guys like me with older women like her so I wasn’t really moved (youthful exuberance). E no get where we no knack abeg. She would even come to my school to pick me up whenever she felt like. My guys will be like “your mumsy don come o”.
One time, she told me her daughter was coming home and she’d like me to meet her daughter because she had lied to the girl that I help her sort out a lot of things and that I’m very intelligent and all. The day came and I met the daughter. Young girl started liking me too and that was how I started knacking mother and daughter lowkey. The main reason why I let this whole shenanigan stop was because it was affecting my academics. She would come to school whenever she felt like and just come to pick me up, I’ll tell her I have tests or something to do and she’ll always be like “but you can always cover up, you’re intelligent”.
Regrets? Nahhh. I enjoyed the moment. Not like my peeps don’t have money, so I wouldn’t say she spoiled me. I was already used to the exposed lifestyle and every time I talk about it, I still laugh.
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Her husband is a military man. She left her one year old baby with her neighbor to go collect knacks more than once. Got pregnant for him too.
There is this girl who happens to be my ex. We dated while I went to rewrite my NECO exam in 2013. The relationship wasn’t serious because she was in SS1. More so, the exam was what was on my mind. After I finished the NECO exam, we lost contact.
Fast forward to 2021, we met on Facebook and we got talking again. She was married with a child and kept saying she really missed me and she wasn’t happy in her marriage. I was actually catching cruise with her but the babe was damn serious and was proposing on leaving her marriage to come settle with me. Her husband wasn’t around for a while, I think he went for one military training or so. Babe was actually the only one around, she will send me nude videos just like pornstar. One faithful day, babe called me that she’s very close to my side. I was like “shey u dey whine me ni”, how will you leave badagry to iperu, ogun state just to come collect premium knacks. She even drop her 1 year old baby with her neighbor without thinking it twice. I was amazed about the whole thing.
Long story short, she slept at my place and the knacks were hot and you need to see how this babe was moaning and screaming in the middle of the night. It was obvious she was dick starved. After everything she didn’t ask for transport fare, she didn’t collect anything and she thanked me. Few weeks later, she left badagry around 4pm to come collect knacks again, while coming she was robbed by all these ikorodu garage thieves, her phone was collected at night but that didn’t stop her from coming. Never knew she even knows my number offhand, she still called and found her way to my place, we still knacked as usual and she left the following day.
I ghosted her when she said she was pregnant and offered to abort it. Although it wasn’t easy but we went our separate ways.
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This one is interesting.
It all started in 2013 while I was in 300L and she was in 500L. She was my senior colleague in the same department in school. She was the shy type, cool headed, homely and beautiful. I asked her out and she refused, lol. She gave me 2 reasons for her refusal:
- She was older and my senior colleague
- She found out I was a cultist
I lost interest too. I moved on and she later graduated before me. I graduated 2015. Fast forward to early 2021, I got a message on my Instagram business page where I sell mannequins. Lo and behold it was this my senior colleague again. Accepted her message request, went through her page and she was already married but no kids yet. Initially I had thought that she was chatting me up to buy the products I’m selling, but she had other intentions. She asked for my WhatsApp and I gave her. Few hours later, she texted me and one thing led to another as our conversation gradually drifted off from business to pleasure.
She started confessing her feelings for me and how she has been looking for me all over Facebook with just my first name as she didn’t know my surname. This woman told me she has been fantasizing about us dating since she graduated. I got the shock of my life when she was telling me how she used to masturbate just thinking about me. So I asked her why she’s telling me all these, knowing fully well that she’s already married “legally”. She told me that she just want us to date secretly without her husband finding out. She told me the time she would be free for phone calls and video calls, she also told me when not to call her because her husband would be around then.
Like you always say, “we all know what we’re doing”. I knew fully well that dating a married woman is a total disaster for an innocent single man like me but I was a fool then, I allowed it happen. She would call me on video while she’s taking her bath, while she’s dressing up, while she’s cooking and all that. We had phone sex couple times, thank God it didn’t happen in real life.
The last straw that broke the camel’s back was when we scheduled a date to meet at a hotel for the actual thing. I called one of my very close friends and told him everything that’s happening and what’s about to happen. This my guy invited me over to his house, coming inside his house, he slapped me. That’s how we started fighting. After some back and forth, because I didn’t understand why he slapped me, he told me that he thought I was wise, that how can I even think of having actual sex with a married woman? He spoke some sense into me and I canceled the dick appointment with her. She became bitter and withdrawn after I told her that I can’t just do it with her.
She blamed me for leading her on and blocked me everywhere. Let’s say we dated secretly for 5 months. I regret doing this I swear, you know guilty pleasures; when it feels so good but it’s bad for you. It has made me look at women somehow because this woman is someone you can vouch for. Like I said, she’s homely, beautiful and soft spoken but why try to cheat with me? To add salt to injury, she’s the church type too, always sending me NSPPD prayer links every 6am. Then after prayers, we’d have phone sex while hubby is at work. I still live with the guilt till today.
