Did the husband find out? Any regrets?
She is a wife with 3 children and had more than 5 abortions for him.
This happened sometime in 2015, I met this chubby beautiful young woman at my friend’s mother’s burial ceremony, just a village after mine and immediately we fell for each other.
At the time, I didn’t know she was married with 3 kids. She told me she was a single mother and even showed me the baby’s pictures and yeah, the baby was also beautiful like her mom. Honestly if anyone told me that lady was a mother of 3, I won’t believe. My friend didn’t have much information.
This relationship went on for months, even went up to a year before I left for Ghana in late 2016. She regularly comes to Warri (I stay there) almost every weekend, she does the spending to be honest. She had an hair dressing salon and had workers, she showers me with gifts and our sex was always out of this world. As an active Urhobo boy, I made sure she had results in terms of numerous pregnancies that she constantly complained that she can’t have a child for me for now. I kind of bought the idea because I am a broke guy.
So we lost contact after I left for Ghana because I must buy new SIM card of which I did at Aflad Border. I stayed in Accra for about 8 months and came back. Immediately I slotted my Nigerian sim back into my phone, I started get calls from her within a week or two. She cried and was super happy I was alive and even rushed down as usual and we continued. Her body was sexually awesome so I got blinded from the red flags in her speeches. For example, she’ll always say “you’re the best I have ever had but it’s painful we can’t be together forever”, I thought she was saying this cause I told her we don’t marry second (single moms) hand in my family.
One faithful day her mom in my friend’s village had a gas accident and she couldn’t make it after being on life support for weeks. She came and I consoled her in my house and kept a close eye on her because she was always crying, she spent two weeks. After that, burial arrangements came and she didn’t send me an invitation and it was weird to me, so I monitored her status and found out from the burial arrangements that she was married with 3 kids, I nearly faint oh! So I called her and she couldn’t find a better story to tell. I cut ties with her but she begged and nearly killed me because she said she can’t let go after terminating more than 5 pregnancies. I told her in my village, it’s an abomination for me to be lashing someone else’s wife. Thank God I escaped that harlot of a woman. How she hid these still baffles me till date. She didn’t give me any single reason to doubt or suspect! Fear woman oh..
Her husband traveled abroad and she wanted to taste his d*ck.
So there’s this young married lady (didn’t suspect she was married at first) that usually brings this kid to a school in my street. We where just on a “hi” and “hello” basis whenever we see, so there’s zero friendship between us.
After a while, I didn’t see her anymore and I didn’t even bother. One fateful day on my way back from work, someone walked up, I turned and it was her, I greeted her. We talked while walking and she asked for me number, well I felt no qualms and I shared it with her. That was my biggest mistake because since then this lady has been on my case, bombarding with calls and WhatsApp messages but I didn’t really budge, until she started recharging my line without asking me.
She has asked for my account number severally and I keep declining. She wasn’t really my type of lady even though she has a banging body, there was just something off about her. So one day I saw her status were she uploaded a picture of a man and a child and captioned it “my two babies, the love of my life”. Instantly alarms bells went off in my head and I chatted her up and I asked if she’s married and she said yes, and the baby? She said hers! And I asked why then have you been moving to me? She said hubby works abroad, he has been away for 9 months and she is lonely and tired of masturbating blah blah. She said she likes me and the way I am built, she likes my deep voice and she likes the way I dress that she has always been a secret admirer. I told her I can’t oo. I no wan spoil person own, make person no spoil my own too.
She was making sex videos for him.
I have this girl who I met at the supermarket, she was so beautiful, slim and tall which is actually my weak point.
So I went to her and we exchanged contacts without knowing she had a husband. After two days, she called me and started telling me how much she loves me, I was like “aunty slow down, we just met and I’m not ready for commitment”. Fast forward to two weeks and she was making sex videos for me and we made arrangements for knacks but there was something that shocked me. There was a day I was on call with her and the call ended abruptly without no reason. So I did my investigation and found out she was married. I confronted her and she apologized and told me she was married that but the guy was not good to her and all sorts of nonsense. I later found out from her that she cheated on the guy and that’s why he stopped caring so much about her and immediately, I lost interest in knacking her.
My advice to my fellow men is ‘you can love a woman but don’t ever trust her’.
