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Sade, 25
I dated my married boyfriend for good 3 months and everything was going on well until one faithful day when he went to the mall to get some groceries for me. I was watching K-drama and my Ear pods were plugged into my ears. I didn’t’ know he was at the door, he had knocked and called my other phone for over an hour but I didn’t know.
Eventually, I opened the door and the next thing I received was a dirty slap. I thought the slap was sent down from hell because I didn’t believe my eyes. I held him by his collar and ne punched my left shoulder and then pushed me away. He angrily packed his other belongings and left. I stopped talking to him ever since then. Blo*dy woman beater!
Oyinda, 31
I had been dating my boyfriend since 2018, we had issues in 2019 and we had to separate. I met this married man 2 months later and we started going out. We had sex a couple of times and I fell totally in love with him, could never be happier. I and this married man promised to stick together no matter what. In 2020, my then-boyfriend came back and begged me that he was ready to make things right and that he would ensure that we never break up again. I took him back but I was still seeing my married boyfriend, not frequently though.
My boyfriend finally proposed to me last year, I never saw it coming. I told my married boyfriend and he said he was indifferent about it since we will always stick together. It was during the introduction I ended up finding out that my married boyfriend was my fiancée’s friend’s elder brother. My fiancée found out about it and ended the relationship. I lost them both.
Lolade, 27
I have never seen an old man cry until the day my married boyfriend watched a match at my apartment. I was cooking in the kitchen and I was hearing him make different sounds, you know how anxious some men can be when watching football and how angry they sound when their team is losing. He was moody after they had beaten Man U 4-0.
I sat in front of him and was making funny faces, that’s how Oga suddenly burst into tears. I know this sounds petty but honestly, this man was shedding real fears. I was just laughing and rolling on the floor because I didn’t even know how to react. 0mo! E shock me! I still can’t wrap my head around that shit till today. Men, naso e dey do una?
Tima, 28
I enjoyed every bit of dating my married boyfriend until I got pregnant. He was there for me for the first few months until he later cut all communication with me when I was 3 months gone. One day, I decided to go to his house, a friend who knows the place took me there. I got there and saw that he was completely the opposite of who I thought he was.
He lives in a rented apartment with two wives and 5 children. He doesn’t own a single car, I figured he borrowed cars to come to see me and sometimes we just order Uber. When he saw me, he dragged me to one side and gave me 10k. He told me to go and never come back again. I took the risk of aborting my pregnancy and moved on.
Jessica, 26
My married boyfriend faked his death because I asked him for N50k. This happened towards the end of last year, I needed the money for my final year week costumes which he promised to give me. I kept calling but he wouldn’t pick up, I dropped him a lot of messages but I was left on read. One day, I got a message that the owner of the phone died 2 weeks ago.
I didn’t even bother to reply before I blocked the number and went on IG to unsend some of the messages I sent him there. Early this year, I stumbled upon his IG page and saw his posts, I didn’t even know if I should laugh or cry. He is alive in good health. I messaged him and he didn’t reply until July, he begged me and we got back together last month.
Debby, 24
The day my two boyfriends (one is married) clashed at my place, hell was cut loose. It was on a Saturday morning, and my boyfriend (25 years old) had passed the night at my place when my married boyfriend (37 years old) arrived. I was very surprised to see him because he doesn’t visit without telling me. I told him I had a visitor but he ignored me and entered the sitting room and sat on the couch. My boyfriend who was just waking up came out and said, “who the fuck is this?”, my married boyfriend got angry and threw one of his shoes at him.
That’s how they started fighting and destroying things in my house. This man beat my boyfriend (25) no be small, he was drenched in blood with swollen lips. This man was also wounded but it was small. I was just crying at one corner begging them to stop. The married man stopped calling me and I begged my boyfriend (25) to forgive me. We are still together 4 months later.
Lydia, 26
I followed my married boyfriend to his friend’s office one day, I didn’t see any friend though. Before we left the hotel for the place, he asked me to write my full name, phone number, and address on a clean sheet. 5 months later, a strange number called me and I started hearing plenty of English, they said I am the guarantor of a loan of N1.5m and the borrower hasn’t paid since the past 3 months. The thing first shock me, I just told them it wasn’t me and switched my phone off that evening. The following morning, they were at my door that was when I knew what was actually going on.
I told them to call him because I stopped talking to him and I don’t know where he lives. They said they called me because they couldn’t reach him and I need to provide him. They gave me some time that if he doesn’t pay, I’ll have to start paying. I just told them I’ll get him and reach out to them. Since I couldn’t reach him, I blocked all their contacts. They came 3 months later with the police, I only paid N200k out of it before I left the apartment and cut them off everywhere.
Halima, 27
I met him on Instagram during the lockdown, he told me we could date because he has been separated for some time. We finally met physically in 2021 and went out a couple of times. I later found out he was married but I couldn’t end the relationship because I was so attached to him. The day my eyes cleared was the first time we wanted to have sex.
I was looking for this man’s penis, but I couldn’t find it. It was so small that I had to ask if it was still flaccid. That’s how I unleashed my madness and didn’t allow him to touch me, why will I allow him touch me with that thing in between his legs that he’s calling penis? I mean, how do you cheat with this kind of penis? Small yansh dey shake!
