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Akin, 37
I was married for 5 years before I got divorced from my wife. Three months later, I started dating one of my exes. Of course, she was married but I didn’t mind because I’ve always wanted to hit since we dated then with no sex. Two months into our relationship, I started doing everything to get her divorced so she could be mine again. I had to attend to something in Abuja in June and as usual, I gave her my house keys in case she needed to come while I was away.
My two weeks trip ended only for me to come back home and met my house completely empty. She carried all my belongings and fled. She celebrated her birthday last month and I stumbled upon her pictures on mutual friend’s status. She posed with her husband and children with my TV and my curtains behind them. I found her husband’s contact, sent him evidence of our affairs and my stolen properties. They are now separated.
Shile, 31
I have once experienced domestic violence and it was with a married woman. We had dated for eight months, she visited me one Sunday and she was watching a show while I was cooking for us. I finished and told her I needed to watch football quickly and she could continue once I’m done. Without waiting for an approval, I changed the channel. She got angry, picked up the remote, and smashed it on my head. After then, I lost count of the sIaps and biting I received from her.
I got the courage of end things with her 2 months later, she’d cry and beg me severally that she would change but still never did. The most annoying part is how she appears in my apartment any time, any day without telling me ahead. I knew I had to leave Abeokuta and move to Lagos after she sent 3 hefty guys to beat me to a pulp one day.
Sylvester, 30
If I had not experienced this, I would have thought it was a scene from a Nollywood movie. I had this newly wedded co-worker, she was everything I wanted in a woman except that she was married. I became so nice to her and she was so fond of me in the office. I asked her out and she accepted. She said her husband was abroad and she has been feeling too lonely all this while. Each time we had sex, I used to have nightmares. If a ghost is not chasing me, a snake or lion would be chasing me.
I didn’t even take it seriously until I realized that my life was going backward, I became so broke and lost my job just a month into our relationship. My mom took me to a Pastor and we found out she was not a real human. It’s been 7 months since I broke up but she still appears in my dreams chasing me. I have now turned the church into my bedroom and my life has never remained the same.
Ezekiel, 28
Early this year, a lady sent me a DM on IG after she had liked all my posts, I knew she was trying to give me a green light so I went with the flow since I only had one girlfriend then. The day we met, she told me she was married but wanted a relationship with me because her husband cheats a lot, hence she’s sex starved. She said it’s been months since she had sex with her husband so she’d appreciate it if we could date. A week after we had our first sex, I had trouble urinating, I had a bacterial infection and the symptoms were so crazy that I don’t pray for if for an enemy.
I started accusing my girlfriend of cheating because she was the 2nd person I was having raw sex with. She accused me of infecting her too and the relationship ended after all the back and forth. I treated myself and I continued having sex with my married girlfriend whom I never suspected. A month later, the infection came back with full force, I had sores around my penis cap and pus was coming out. I got access to my married gf’s phone and realized she was having sex with one other guy and her husband. I broke up and tried getting back with my girlfriend but she said no. I spent over N200k carrying out STDs tests and treating myself.
Joel, 29
I was having sex with my married girlfriend in my apartment when her husband barged in on us. I didn’t even flinch until I felt a striking lash behind my head. He and his friends dragged me out naked and beat the hell out of me with a belt. His wife locked herself inside and refused to come out.
Her husband left after we all waited on my front balcony for about 3 hours, I was butt naked throughout. When she finally opened the door, I commot my belt and did everything her husband did to me. After all, it was her carelessness that made her husband find me.
Wasiu, 28
My married girlfriend was a bloody cheat and that was hurtful as helI. She won my heart after she told me about her pitiful marriage experiences. I decided to be her comfort and give her all the happiness she has been missing in her marriage. I was 100% loyal to her, I didn’t entertain any other lady throughout our courtship. I never denied sex and I was always showering her with gifts. I never crossed my boundary because I wanted to make sure she has a perfect home, I often give her extra money for the family whenever she complains her husband is broke.
Despite all of this, I found out she was dating 2 other guys aside from me and her husband. I nearly die, I was on drips for 2 good days because this is someone I’ve trusted with my entire life. The most painful thing was that it was her husband’s birthday week and they went on a vacation while I was on hospital bed without getting a call from her. It was so hurtful watching all the nice pictures and happy faces. Fear women oooo, especially the married ones.
Emeka, 26
My mom had a friend who had a gigantic behind, I jokingly call her hottie-hottie and we both laugh it off. Meanwhile, I was madly crushing on her even though she was in her 40s and I wanted to have a taste of what her husband was enjoying so badly. The day I wanted to make a move was the exact day she made a move first. I was so happy and quickly gave in. We began sexting most of the time, it was quite exciting. Two months into the relationship, mummy wasn’t saying anything about sex which was my main aim. I summoned courage to ask her about sex but I realized that I had crossed a huge line.
This woman screen-shotted only that part of my chat and sent it to my mom and her husband. Her husband barged into our house and started hitting me. My dad was furious at first but after hearing what I did, he joined him in beating me. The following Sunday, we all had a meeting, I was o the ground prostrating and begging everyone for nearly 4 hours. I couldn’t even tell anyone my part of the story till today. Why was she giving me green light from the on-set? She used me.
Niyi, 26
I thought dating older women was a flex until I tried it. During my NYSC, I met a married woman in her 40s who asked if we could date. I didn’t even think twice before saying yes because I perceived it as a sugar mummy-gigolo relationship. I’ve heard stories of how some boys get taken care of by older women so I was all in, besides I needed some connection to get a job ASAP after NYSC. When we started our sexationship, we used to lodge in a hotel at least thrice a week and throughout our stay, this woman requests sex and I don’t even get to rest at all. Whenever I’m not busy stroking her, I’m under her giving head while struggling to breathe.
After a month of doing this, I summoned the courage to start asking her for money because there was no way I’d be doing that work without having anything to show for it. To my greatest surprise, this woman gave me 2k the first day I asked for money. Even the day I nearly die after several rounds of sex, all she did was buy me malt and milk and gave me 1k before dropping me at my junction. I blocked her everywhere 4 months later. She was a bad market.