She has never been faithful to a guy and have cheated multiple times. She doesn’t know her body counts and has gone for therapy.
Concerning ladies that cheat on their boyfriend, I am a culprit not in my current relationship though because I promised myself to be faithful and thank God it’s been 3months and I haven’t cheated on my boyfriend. Note: this is the first time.
My story, I have never been faithful to a guy. I may have different excuses and try to deny the obvious but the truth is I am just so insecure that I attach my worth to having options to pick from at anytime.
It isn’t about money because I’m doing quite well for myself, I have 2 different shops in Abuja that is able to sustain my lifestyle and I don’t lack anything because all of my numerous boyfriends in the past were always ready to give me what I want. I never ask a guy for money, some willingly give while some don’t and I don’t mind. I see some guys on twitter say independent women that don’t bother them for material things is being a good woman, I just laugh because that is not the case here.
Back to my story, because of numerous cheating escapades I do not even know my body count. I am a really homely girl and innocent looking that just only 2 of my ex ever caught me cheating (not in the act tho). It may sound like I’m proud of it but I’m not, I hate it so much, I hated that life.
Two months before I met my current boyfriend I was in therapy because I was addicted to cheating and sex. No one would ever be able to suspect what I am battling. I did therapy for 4 weeks and entered a new relationship after 1 year and 6 months of being single. That relationship didn’t last because he was bad in bed (imagine that). My current boyfriend is everything I ever wanted and I do not intend to cheat on him. For this reason, I joined a support group and I’m talking with a therapist online. I intend to go for full therapy if the temptation to cheat ever arises again.
Before anyone judge me, imagine being sexually molested at age 6, 10 and 14 by 3 different men. Imagine being raped at 16 and losing your virginity to it. Imagine being sexually active from 16 to 26. I’m not making excuses, I’m trying to stop too.
In the past I can date 3 guys all at once and they will never know because I treat them well, always respectful to them, never demanded (sometimes I help), I cook and clean for them. The only issue I’ve always had is their complain about me being proud, not necessarily towards them but there’s this sprinkle of arrogance in me considering I can take care of myself and they were replaceable at anytime. This sparked my ego and made me foolish even to some good men.
Like I said previously, I’m not proud of it. I’m working actively on it, it’s a bit easier since it was never about the money so I can focus on what really matters and what I want, wish me luck!!!
