A lot of men are under the impression that women go after bad guys, I know. There’s a reason why women say nice guys finish last but what men don’t seem to understand is that while it’s true that women go after Bad Boys, it’s not because these men are bad, NO! The bad part itself isn’t all that attractive to women. In reality a lot of bad boys tend to have a number of traits that are extremely attractive to women.
In this post I’m going to be talking about the seven rules of courting women that bad boys break and why they’re still successful despite breaking them.
Trying To Make Yourself More Appealing
A lot of men hold the idea that they need to do something specific to attract women. They’ll fall Head Over Heels trying to do things to impress women, Bad Boys on the other hand don’t really do things this way. Bad boys tend to be themselves, they are who they are around women and don’t try to change themselves to impress them and believe it or not, women can tell when you’re Faking It. They know when you’re trying to be someone that you’re not so the next time you want to impress a girl try to be yourself.
Befriend Her First
This is one of the most common pieces of advice that gets thrown around in the dating scene. Everyone keeps telling you that you should befriend the girl first before making your feelings known. Now here’s why this is bad advice and why it should be broken
- when you don’t let her know about the way you feel right from the start she might get comfortable with the idea that you’re just a friend and she might even write you off as a possible love interest altogether.
- when you befriend a woman just so you can get her into your bed later on your friendship is formed on a lie and every lie we tell incurs a debt to truth sooner or later that debt is repaid.
Putting Women On A Pedestal
A lot of Modern Men or should I say simps do this no matter if the woman deserves it or not. They put them on a pedestal and treat her like a queen. Believe It or Not, there’s tens if not hundreds of other guys that make her feel the same way. She has an abundance of attention and affection thrown at her from every direction from every male she comes across you’re not doing anything special by simping for her, don’t do it. The moment you start to treat her as a normal human being that’s when you’re going to show yourself to be different from all the other guys.
Waiting For The Right Time
In some ways this is necessary. You can be with the right girl and just outright mess things up completely if you shoot your shot at the wrong moment. Ever heard of doing the right thing at the wrong time, yeah you can end up doing that but waiting for the right time doesn’t mean waiting forever and ever. A lot of guys make the mistake of waiting too long to shoot their shot so don’t wait too long if it feels like the right moment it probably is. Go ahead.
Being Nice To Everyone
There’s a difference between being nice to everyone and being a nice person. you can be a nice person without being nice to everyone but you can’t be an honest person if you’re nice to every single person you come across. It’s natural that we will come across someone that we disagree with or someone we don’t like. If you pretend to be nice to them you’re going to seem insincere, girls notice these things and if she notices you being insincere and dishonest with others she’ll think that you’ll do the same thing with her as well.
Bad Boys Don’t Tolerate Everything In Women
If there’s a red flag or something that they don’t like they’ll leave her even if she’s an attractive woman. This is something a lot of men don’t seem to realize nowadays just because she’s attractive doesn’t mean that you have to put up with her every single thing. She’s still human and not all humans are compatible with each other. if you start tolerating everything, even things that go against your morals and your virtues you’re going to mess things up. You might get the girl if you do this but after the honeymoon period runs out you’re going to hate yourself for doing this. You’ll be stuck with a woman that you despise so don’t be a simp and let her go as she blows her chance.
Stop Being Negative
You know the biggest reason a woman goes after Bad Boys is they make her forget all of the negativity in her own life Bad Boys in general are so nonchalant about everything that it seems like they don’t have any problems at all in their lives. Women like this idea of being free from all the worries of the world so naturally if a bad boy gives them a glimpse of this non-negative world they easily end up falling for it. If you want to attract women you need to stop complaining and being negative. You might have problems but face them yourself and whenever you two are together try to forget your problems and focus on what you’re doing. This will make her feel the same way the bad boys make her feel. Once you two fall in love and become a true couple then you can go and tell her your problems and your worries. Just don’t do it too much, she might leave you.
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